Yesterday I wrote about the five things my father taught me about life. As I look at them today, and review the various comments and news about the dismal job market, I realize that they are words to live by while job hunting.
There is no doubt in my mind that the employment market is lifeless. The jobs are lacking and the unemployed are discouraged. The anger, frustration and cynicism can be seen on any LinkedIn groups, the newspapers, and in the comments section of each article on job search tips. A growing number of unemployed renegades are out with a vengeance and are lashing out at anyone who may offer a suggestion or make a comment. Overall it’s discouraging, frustrating and a day-in day-out blow to even the strongest of constitutions.
Getting back to my Dad’s advice, here is how I see his words as they apply to the unemployment mess.
1. There is no such word as “can’t”: In other words, don’t say there is only one way to do something. Hard as it is (and I seriously know it is hard), you may have to step out of your comfort zone and job search differently. Some suggestions may be to network more or with different people, change your resume to reflect each and every job posting, telephone people rather than emailing them... your gut probably can give you some more suggestions.
2. The harder the hammering, the stronger the steel: Get punched and fall down. Get back up. The job search can feel like this on a daily basis. Sometimes it’s hard to find the good in ourselves after being knocked down so many times. You are who you are first and what your job is second.
3. The world is your oyster: It’s a big world with many possibilities. Learn new skills, take some free classes, get out and meet new people and share your passions. Share yourself with others by volunteering.
4. Treat everyone with respect: Whether it is on line or in person, respect is the Golden Rule. People that you treat kindly may reimburse you some day by remembering you and your job needs. Plus, aren’t we trying to teach our kids that bullying is wrong? Why do it as an adult?
5. Do what you love and love what you do: There are a couple of meanings here. If you love to garden, go outside and blow some steam off. If you love to sing, dance, exercise, write, paint, volunteer… do it. Keep busy and do something else besides job search. There are 24 hours in a day and while many of them should be used for the job search, use some of the others for you and your family. The other meaning here is to figure out what type of career you are passionate about by thinking of your skills, values and personality. Take an assessment and brainstorm people/ways to possible pursue that avenue.
Anything else? Let me know and I'll add it.
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