What do you think about company dress codes? When I worked in the
Human Resources department the dress code was part of the employee
handbook of dos and don’t's. It offered the corporate version of
“business casual” and was presented during the employee orientation or
on-boarding meetings . The policy was revisited and updated if
necessary. There has been a lot of buzz on LinkedIn about the
"unprofessional" profile photographs making the rounds lately. Should
LinkedIn enforce a dress code?
A dress code can be tricky business to write and enforce. According
to a template offered by the Society of Human Resources Management,
having a dress code “provides that department managers may exercise
discretion in determining what is appropriate and may make exceptions
for special circumstances. The policy sets out basic guidelines with
examples of inappropriate attire and appearance and gives supervisors
and managers the authority to excuse an employee from the work area to
make changes to comply.”
I’m from the Baby Boomer generation. I came to age when women in the
workplace wore, suits, dresses or pant suits. The men wore suits, button
down collars and ties. It was stuffy. When I worked in the insurance
and banking industries the criteria for business attire was even more
stringent. Today there are generational differences of opinions
dictating what people should be allowed to wear to work.
Let’s fast forward to 2016. Over the years the dress codes in most
organizations have significantly relaxed. Business casual is the term
used to describe a more comfortable, yet “professional” mode of
clothing. Currently, many companies allow jeans, sneakers and other
comforts that allow their employees to get their work done in a less
formal, more laid-back manner.
On LinkedIn there are all kinds of side discussions happening about
the recent incidents of “unprofessional” (less clothing/more skin)
photographs of men and women. Some of these people are models, fitness
trainers and a few, “I overcame something and now I am stronger for it”
people. There are arguments about the pros and cons of these photographs
with some people loving them and some people crying foul.
I look at it this way, if you were to interview at an organization
(and it can be anywhere; a bank, a retailer, a school, a fitness center
or modeling agency), would you show up wearing the clothing that you are
wearing in your LinkedIn profile?
LinkedIn is a business-oriented social media site. Your profile
picture and your updates convey a message about you and are lasting
visual representations to LinkedIn’s 414 million users of who you are.
Is this the image that you want to convey?
"Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, you were only waiting for this moment to arise." John Lennon and Paul McCartney. As your job search coach I provide the training, tools and encouragement that will allow you to reach your potential and take flight in your career.
Monday, February 29, 2016
Saturday, February 20, 2016
Justice Scalia's Funeral Mass and Workplace Protocol
In my 21 years with my former company I saw a lot of good
things such as community service, team work and an outstanding work
ethic. I also saw the sadness and hurt of layoffs, project mishaps and the worst possible thing; employee death. It
was inevitable.
It was always the deaths that disturbed and shook us all. Company policy stated that if an employee wanted to attend a wake they could, as long as they made up the work or if another co-worker covered for them. The same held true with the funeral service.
The thing that angered me
(and had my boss tell me that if I wanted to remain in Human Resources, I needed to grow
thicker skin) was that the funerals for the “lower level” staff; the staff who weren’t management level, were rarely attended by the company leadership. A direct supervisor might attend but it was uncommon to see members of the leadership team. This happened
so often that employees complained. It was finally addressed and some sort of unwritten
policy was made. Going forward, at least one member of the company leadership team would
attend the funeral and wake of recently deceased co-workers.This simple act eliminated the nagging "us vs. them" mentality and overall elitism that was so prevalent in those days.
Today’s funeral mass of Justice Scalia reminded me of those
days. It was visibly different in that there was more pomp and ceremony and the people
attending were friends, family, co-workers and members of our County’s “Leadership
Team”. Still, I still couldn’t shake that feeling of deja vous.
Monday, February 8, 2016
Cam Newton, Football and Making Mistakes at Work
By now everyone is Monday morning quarterbacking about Super
Bowl 50 and the behavior of North Carolina Panther’s Quarterback Cam Newton at
the post-game press conference. For those who don’t know, after a few one word responses
and some mumbles, he got up and left the interview. He was obviously angry and
hurting. Still, his behavior was childish and disappointing, especially to
those who support or look up to him.
Cam Newton is only 26 years old and in his short (by our
standards) career he’s done a lot for the game of football, North Carolina,
children and charities. When I was 26 I
made a huge mistake at work. To this day I remember the feeling of helplessness
(sickness) when my boss called me into his office to explain the repercussions of
my error. Since then I’ve made tons of mistakes at work and in life. This thing
is, back then and now, I own up to my mistakes and take the heat. Most adults
do.
In life (and football) there are winners and losers. We get
hired, we get fired. We get the contract, we lose the contract. In other words,
we don’t always win the trophy. In the real world we can’t sulk, hide or walk
out of work. We can’t blame others. We have to take
responsibility for our own actions and set an example for others. The key is to
use that failure as an example of doing better next time. Life goes on.
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