Holding Close What Matters Most

 Lately—today, yesterday, even last week—we’ve been hit with the news that people we loved, cared about, or admired have passed away. And yet, somehow, we still find ourselves arguing, holding grudges, or pouring energy into outrage over things that, in the end, don’t really matter.

 What does matter? Love. People. Friendships. Family. Life.

And life—fleeting, fragile, unpredictable—becomes more real with every passing year. It's impossible to ignore.

 

So check in on someone. Especially when things seem quiet—reach out. Not to rant about politics (because let’s be honest, most of it is just noise), but to tell someone what they mean to you. Remind them what makes them special.

 

I get it now—why my dad used to call up his old Army buddies just to say how much he appreciated them. They’d swap stories, laugh, and reconnect. That’s what it’s all about.

 

That’s life. That’s what lasts.

Rest in Peace Bob, 

Rest in Peace Cindy